My Healing Place
By Holly Walton
In Memory of Tyna Webb
I have a healing place. A place I can turn to when I need to be silent. Or need space. A place where I can pray and think. I find comfort in the familiarity of the place- the sea, the birds, the beach, the coffee shop. Within the familiarity there is mystery, an element of surprise. Sometimes the waves are wild, dangerous- although usually they lap gently around your feet. Sometimes the distant mountains are clear, beautiful; sometimes obscured by mist and smog. At times the gently rippling surface is smashed by the wondrous crash of a breaching whale, a waving fluke, or the graceful arcs of a pod of silvery dolphins. Sometimes the shore is littered with wilting bluebottles, decomposing kelp, spiky fish. Sometimes the tide is so high, the wind so fierce that there is no shore to speak of. At times the gull’s cry fills the air forming a symphony with children’s happy laughter, but mostly the South Easter masks all other sounds.
So many full and wonderful memories are associated with my healing place. Memories of my babies eating the sand and feeling the water for the first time. Of swimming alone with my husband whilst the rain pelted down. Memories of happy fish and chip meals, countless cups of coffee, silent walks. Of exploring rock pools, finding star fish, feeding sea anemones, spotting seals. Of my dad building sandcastles with my children. And there are the memories of tears and arguments shouted into the wind.
There is something safe about that place. Safe so that I can always go there when my heart and mind are full. Safe knowing that I can unburden myself into the wind and the waves, the gulls and the sandy beaches. My healing place is a tangible expression of my experience with God. Predictably unpredictable, calm and rough, clear and murky, melodious and discordant. Full of life and yet with the potential to cause death. Consistent in its inconsistency, this is what draws me, calls me. It is this knowledge that beckons me to cool my toes, splash my knees or immerse my entire body in its cleansing depths.
Last night we went for a swim there. The children were a delight. Rebekah twirled and floated in her armbands, Talitha body surfed cautiously in the little waves and Mike rolled around unashamedly in the shallows with Emma. I floated around between them, my heart full, peaceful, safe. My healing place a magnificent reflection of a facet of my God.
This morning my healing place saw death. An elderly lady was taken by a great white shark. All that remained was her swimming cap floating in a pool of red. And a dozen traumatised swimming companions.
Oh Lord, how can this be? Why is it that just when I feel safe with You, feel like I understand something of Yourself, You plunge me into darkness? My healing place is tainted with blood now, Lord. My image of You is once again fragmented and shattered. And just when I had placed the pieces together again.
Consistent in Your inconsistency. Source of life, Creator of death. Understood and completely beyond comprehension. Oh Lord, have mercy on me. I don not understand You, sometimes I don’t even like You. But somehow You seem to be so intimately woven into what makes up the fibre of my being that, try as I may, I cannot walk away from You. I feel like I have plumbed some unfathomably deep well where the water is quenching and life giving, cool and refreshing, calm and clear. But also rough and impenetrably black. Help me to trust You Lord. Help me to love You. And in Your mercy protect the fragile shreds of my faith.
Holly lives in Fish Hoek, Cape Town with her husband of 17 years and her three wonderful (mostly) daughters. She is a full time mom and wife and a part time student and counsellor.
